We always comment abt ladies being menopause when they are grouchy . Well , why no one talks abt Andropause ? That's the male version of grouchy men.
My dad has been extremely petty recently . Gets moody when we take a long time to pick up the phone , forgets to ask if he has dinner and grumbles when we are late for dinner .
Hopes this is transitional . Tiring to managed his expectation ESP if all these happens on the weekday .
Saturday, July 31, 2010
Wednesday, July 28, 2010
Growing Stage
It's not true that in our parents time , mummys are hands on while daddys do nothing . Athought more MCP exists in that era , I am glad my dad is not one of those .
He is not exactly very "educational" towards us. Sweets, kiddy rides and giving in to our demands . But my dad makes a point to bring us out every weekend . We do not owned a car at that time but that does not deter him from bringing us out.
We were well entertain at home too. He is one funny dad.
Comparing to some Daddys this generation , some are really terrible. Not all women have the luxury of being a stay home mum. Most full time working mummies are also "full time" home mummies.
They bring the bacon home too !
Why does these daddies wanna have children if they don't want to be involve in their growing stage? Time would never turn back . They rather be busy with their games, phones , tv programs and friends night out?
Most pushed the responsibilities to the helpers. This is something I strongly object.
Parents are irreplacable. It's our duties to make sure they gets our attention and time.
It's not that difficult to please a kid. Play with them, Pay attention to their needs, talk to them and spent quality time with them .
Reward = lovely smile , many hugs and loads of I love you being whispered to u.
They will be more receptive towards us well.
He is not exactly very "educational" towards us. Sweets, kiddy rides and giving in to our demands . But my dad makes a point to bring us out every weekend . We do not owned a car at that time but that does not deter him from bringing us out.
We were well entertain at home too. He is one funny dad.
Comparing to some Daddys this generation , some are really terrible. Not all women have the luxury of being a stay home mum. Most full time working mummies are also "full time" home mummies.
They bring the bacon home too !
Why does these daddies wanna have children if they don't want to be involve in their growing stage? Time would never turn back . They rather be busy with their games, phones , tv programs and friends night out?
Most pushed the responsibilities to the helpers. This is something I strongly object.
Parents are irreplacable. It's our duties to make sure they gets our attention and time.
It's not that difficult to please a kid. Play with them, Pay attention to their needs, talk to them and spent quality time with them .
Reward = lovely smile , many hugs and loads of I love you being whispered to u.
They will be more receptive towards us well.
Monday, July 26, 2010
Back to work
Heaps of work to complete. From appraisal , coaching , field work , sales promotion to budgeting , seems like I am involve in every aspect . So little time and so much to do.
My work keeps piling . That's scary.
Now I need coffee in the morning and chicken essence at night - My reliable energy booster.
My work keeps piling . That's scary.
Now I need coffee in the morning and chicken essence at night - My reliable energy booster.
Stay at home mum ?
My girlfriend has just quit her job and turned into a SAHM.
Wow! admirable indeed. She gave up a career and a job that's pays as well as her other half. In short she contributes about 50% of the household income .
I hope to be able to follow suite some day.
Devote my time to the kids and spend time coaching their studies as well as personal development .
It's a blessing to do so
Wow! admirable indeed. She gave up a career and a job that's pays as well as her other half. In short she contributes about 50% of the household income .
I hope to be able to follow suite some day.
Devote my time to the kids and spend time coaching their studies as well as personal development .
It's a blessing to do so
Sunday, July 25, 2010
Coffee Machine
Latest addition to the kitchen .. Pretty good deal. $298 plus 3 packets of coffee capsules .
I have never been a coffee lover. Things change starting this year. The increasing stress level plus late nights turned me into one. The aroma of the coffee perks my day .
Been eyeing this machine for some time and finally decided to get it. One cup cost abt 80cents from the machine .
I would think my family would Love this based on the fact they are coffee fanatic .
Saturday, July 24, 2010
My Super Hero
Comical,great sense of humour & happy go lucky . Kayly is one funny gal with loads of expressive emotion.
Work
It has been nearly a quarter since the restructure. Work loads is still as ridiculous. But I have been complaining less. Hah....must have resigned to fate.
OKie, I have yet to start working on my CV. Needs to find time tomorrow to start working on it. Time to move out of an unhealthy environment.
Whats Annual Leave ?? Its employees' benefit !!!! Now where are the benefits when one is being disturb most of the time ?
Been harass across the board. From the most silly & unimportant enquiries which drives me to my grave. How on earth such inconsiderate pple exisit ?
Imagine people telling u they are damm free but have to act busy at work so boss thinks they are very busy too.
I think the superior must be blind if he really believes in that. Heavy workload or not...as a superior , isnt it obvious ?
I would think my subordinate is damm inefficient , so little work & always seem so busy. Isnt it?
OKie, I have yet to start working on my CV. Needs to find time tomorrow to start working on it. Time to move out of an unhealthy environment.
Whats Annual Leave ?? Its employees' benefit !!!! Now where are the benefits when one is being disturb most of the time ?
Been harass across the board. From the most silly & unimportant enquiries which drives me to my grave. How on earth such inconsiderate pple exisit ?
Imagine people telling u they are damm free but have to act busy at work so boss thinks they are very busy too.
I think the superior must be blind if he really believes in that. Heavy workload or not...as a superior , isnt it obvious ?
I would think my subordinate is damm inefficient , so little work & always seem so busy. Isnt it?
Friday, July 23, 2010
Rare Moments
Beautiful scenery and not forgetting the fresh air . I am at the 43rd floor of Sands Marina. It had been ages since both hubby and I had some quiet moments together .
Naive Old Folks
Whats new about old folks being cheated out of their savings for some miracle gem? Such news are always splashing across the papers.
Well, its not always abt being cheated by strangers .
Came across a case recently. Relatives who maintain they love & care for one another. But behind the scene lies some ugly truth. I hope the couple has woken up from the dream and move on. NOt everybody talks abt ties. Who cares about past relationship & how nice u are.
After all, its all about money . When one starts mentioning abt the past, there will never be closure. Its best to move on & not defend .
As the saying .. What comes around goes around. Yes, I do believe in this statement.
Well, its not always abt being cheated by strangers .
Came across a case recently. Relatives who maintain they love & care for one another. But behind the scene lies some ugly truth. I hope the couple has woken up from the dream and move on. NOt everybody talks abt ties. Who cares about past relationship & how nice u are.
After all, its all about money . When one starts mentioning abt the past, there will never be closure. Its best to move on & not defend .
As the saying .. What comes around goes around. Yes, I do believe in this statement.
A little effort that makes my day
Without my capable helper , I began to make an effort to spent more time with Kadence and try to observe her sleeping habits. Well , so that we have a better night. Gonna give her the last feed at 11plus and hope she sleeps thru the night.
Soooo happy today. Kadence actually opened her arms and show signs of wanting mummy . She was beaming with joy when I call her . Seems like my efforts is going to pay off .
Way to go ..... Yipee !!
Thursday, July 22, 2010
My Helper
My helper will be going back for good next Monday. What does that means ? Means I will have to start from scratch to train the new helper, rebuild the trust & most impt.....to build the bond between my 2 kids and the new one.
It will be at least another 5 months before the new helper can multi task as well as take care of my little one.
I have the luxury of sleeping thru the nights peacefully since the birth of my 2nd one. Kadence is has a habit of waking up at odd hours & refusing to sleep. Su has been patiently rocking her back to bed many times at night.
I tried to take over the role 2 days ago & I have since turn into a Panda. She woke up at 245am & refused to go back to bed till 4am. She only went back to bed when I give up & seek help from helper again.
How am I going to survive tonight ? I really dont understand why Kadence has such bad sleeping habits since birth. Oh well, time to browse the net for ideas.
It will be at least another 5 months before the new helper can multi task as well as take care of my little one.
I have the luxury of sleeping thru the nights peacefully since the birth of my 2nd one. Kadence is has a habit of waking up at odd hours & refusing to sleep. Su has been patiently rocking her back to bed many times at night.
I tried to take over the role 2 days ago & I have since turn into a Panda. She woke up at 245am & refused to go back to bed till 4am. She only went back to bed when I give up & seek help from helper again.
How am I going to survive tonight ? I really dont understand why Kadence has such bad sleeping habits since birth. Oh well, time to browse the net for ideas.
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